

It Was Never Just the Coffee
There’s something about standing by that little yellow coffee van with a brew in your hand that makes you think a bit more than you probably planned to. You come for a coffee. You leave unpacking your life. And lately, I’ve been thinking about breakups. Not just the surface-level stuff either. Not the “plenty more fish” nonsense people throw at you like it fixes anything. I mean the real bit. The bit no one really talks about. You don’t just lose the person. You lose the ver
1 day ago3 min read


When ‘Serving Me’ Misses the Blend
There’s a phrase that seems to follow modern dating around like background noise: “If it’s not serving me, it’s not right.” It sounds strong. Decisive. Self-aware. But sat here with a coffee in hand, watching people come and go past this little yellow van, I can’t help but think… it’s often misunderstood. Because in theory, it’s not wrong. A relationship should serve you, just not in the way people often mean it. What it should mean is simple: Does this relationship add somet
2 days ago3 min read


Flat White Flags: The Dating Game and the Battle of Being ‘Just Right’
☕ The Espresso Shot of Truth It all started, as it usually does, outside the little yellow coffee van. A crisp morning, banter flying,...
Jul 17, 20254 min read
